Is it common sense?

Is it common sense that you keep people communicated if you need their help? Do you like surprises like this? -- in particular the kind of surprises that others have to pay for? In particular in a time other people need to fight to guard themselves?

I've seen this kind of things too often among Chinese people:), so can we say (at least some of them) deserve to be spun off?:)

Question: is it in your interest to stay? If so, does "do anything possible" for that purpose serve your interest? Who cares more than yourself about yourself?

Another question: Is it clear the folks are really very nice to you, and have done really good for you? Do you need to show appreciation and gratitude for that, so you help yourself by securing help from them in the future?

Even more question: Is it clear that it's good to take the aid, by show appreciation and gratitude, then talk about other possible options, and see how they think?

Jesus Christ:), people all so often take action only in last minute:), on when they are right in front trouble:).

Remember: Be strategic, and keep things simple and straight!

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• 以前的老板之前做預算的時候都會問我有什麽要算進去的 -阿呆瓜- ♀ (326 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 14:40:19

• "偷偷"? -ntking- ♂ (427 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 14:45:07

• 你是不了解我公司的情況，我的job security比我老板大多了， -阿呆瓜- ♀ (96 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 14:49:43

• 我老板一周隻來1-2天，是個半職。公司雇他是為了裝個門麵的， -阿呆瓜- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 14:54:04

• Does he -ntking- ♂ (165 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 14:59:45

• 他剛來2個多月，是叫做co-sourcing, -阿呆瓜- ♀ (345 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 15:26:11

• 法律上規定cfo,ceo不能直接管我，否則根本不必雇他了。 -阿呆瓜- ♀ (50 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 15:32:55

• Then he -ntking- ♂ (234 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 15:50:19

• By the way -ntking- ♂ (555 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 16:06:22

• 是的，這是他們所做的project之一，risk assessment. -阿呆瓜- ♀ (122 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 17:55:03

• 是的，我也不想通過他，通過它隻是讓他有點麵子不覺得 -阿呆瓜- ♀ (14 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 17:51:45

• 解雇了我他還得雇新人，重新考驗，故新人必用老人要貴， -阿呆瓜- ♀ (57 bytes) () 02/07/2009 postreply 15:29:08