She had a nerve going to the Hospital to see him. Come on, women, leave a married man alone, even if he comes onto you. I would never ever be with a married man. I could not do that to his wife, or if he had kids, do that to the kids. Years ago I had a married man come onto me, and I said no way will I do anything with you, not while you are married. I will not do that to your wife, and I would never. If he wants to cheat on his wife, that's on him, but I was not willing to do that with him. It's just wrong, and if you are in a marriage where you are not happy, do not cheat; leave the marriage. It just hurts the wife and kids, or vice versa if the wife is the one cheating. Take your vows seriously. Or don't get married.
Neither would I if I was married. I have strong morals.
Wholeheartedly agree! I think it's a cowardly thing to do: have an affair rather than leave the marriage outright. Some people use adultery as a way out of their unhappy situation—like, meeting someone else helps them to finally leave a marriage they've been detached from for years. Cowardly and cruel, I say.
Were you attracted to the guy?
I was very pleased when Richard's wife finally met with Beth and got a chance to look at little Eric.She made the right decision to make sure that Eric would be financially provided for. Both women shared a deep love for Richard. 
The conversation between the two women at the end was accurate. A mistress can physically leave, but the emotional attachment will always be there. So you are locked in. Love is a strong thing. Both women are willing victims of a man who, for whatever reason, is unable to make a decision, resulting in a situation where he exhausts all possibilities. He doesn't get burned, but the women feel the burn.
It's the same when it's the woman stepping outside the marriage. I think in both cases what sets it all off is each is seeking a need they aren't finding any longer in the marriage. But society has dictated it's till death do you part, so they feel obligated to stay or be put on a guilt trip by bible bangers.
I realize that my comment will go against the grain of many in society today, but "8 stolen years" was appropriately said. You stole from his wife. You stole from his daughter. You stole what wasn't yours. He lived a double life while lying to his wife, daughter, church, and everyone.
The betrayal is deep. When two people make a commitment in marriage VOWS, they are never to be broken. Society is becoming so far removed from the seriousness of adultery. Adultery is a very serious thing in the eyes of the Creator of Heaven and Earth which is where marriage laws originally come from and the authorities of this Earth are supposed to be adhering to.
Marriage laws are so binding that the New Testament says that even if a man puts away (divorces) his wife and marries another, he commits adultery, meaning that the second marriage is nothing more than adultery. These are the facts, as ugly as they sound, and adultery is not allowed any more than murder is. Words to live and die by. Wickedness can seem innocent. This is deception.
Human beings need to understand [of course coming in my discussion shows] that love is limitless, boundless. If you keep pets you love, you love your children, parents, friends, and nature, world issues with passion, then don’t smear love sensual or otherwise for another being; it’s very much there, bound to happen more than once in your life, foolish to think it cannot. On the other hand, responsibilities and duties grounded as in families are bounded; you must carry them through.
