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腦子被驢踢了 vs. 非理性的爭辯/個人信念深植於情感和文化背景中

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腦子被驢踢了: "問一挺哈朋友, 你為啥支持驢黨? 他沉默良久, 歎道: 我的腦子被驢踢了." explain it is wise not to argue with others on politic and religion.

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這段對話中的幽默回答——“我的腦子被驢踢了”——實際上傳達了一個深刻的道理：在政治和宗教問題上爭論可能不值得，因為這類討論很容易導致情感上的衝突，而非理性的爭辯。

以下是幾個解釋為什麽在這些話題上爭論可能不明智的原因：

個人信念深植於情感和文化背景中：政治和宗教信仰通常根植於個人的核心價值觀和生活經曆中。這些信念不僅僅是理性的判斷，往往與個人的情感和文化背景緊密相關。爭論這些問題時，人們可能會感到自己的基本信念和身份受到威脅，從而導致激烈的對抗而非建設性的對話。
對話容易變成爭吵：這些話題往往非常敏感，容易引發強烈的情緒反應。即使雙方原本是為了探討真理或分享觀點，爭論可能迅速變成個人攻擊，雙方都可能因此感到受傷或憤怒。
難以找到共同的立場：政治和宗教觀念高度多樣化，往往難以找到共識。即使經過長時間的討論，也可能發現很難改變對方的看法或達成一致。這樣，爭論不僅不會解決問題，還可能加深彼此的分歧。
影響人際關係：爭論這些話題有可能損害個人之間的關係。如果爭論導致情感上的衝突和不滿，可能會影響到友誼和社會關係的和諧。因此，有時候保持沉默或尊重彼此的差異，反而能維護關係的穩定。
關注共同點：有時候，與其爭論這些分歧，不如專注於共同的興趣和價值觀。這樣不僅能保持關係的和諧，還能促進更有意義的對話和合作。

總之，雖然在政治和宗教問題上有不同的觀點是正常的，但在這些話題上爭論可能帶來的負麵影響使得選擇不爭論，或以尊重和理解的態度進行討論，成為更明智的選擇。

• 問一挺哈朋友, 你為啥支持驢黨? 他沉默良久, 歎道: 我的腦子被驢踢了. - 貝勒王 - (0 bytes) (179 reads) 08/25/2024 14:31:49 (1)

• 哈哈哈，他們最大的優點就是坦率 - 老財主說兩句 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:38:06

• 也許別人懶得和你爭吵。生活中碰到川米分我也是敬而遠之。 - Nevermind666 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:08:29

• 象黨就是被大象踩平了，都是一個腦筋？ - 波粒子3 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:48:24

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• Evangelicals for Harris … - 小倩2 - (114 bytes) (233 reads) 08/25/2024 14:08:26

• 好奇問一下，Harris去不去教會？ - Dotline - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:09:48

• 去教會的人舉止優雅, 不會浪笑, 更不會當小三兒. - 貝勒王 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:15:47

• 應該問她是去什麽教會吧？ - 金筆 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:18:31

• 邪教。 - AprilMei - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:30:12 (1)

• 倩倩2去的肯定是邪教教會。 - 紅辣椒66 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:10:12

• 哈哈是曆史上第一位沒有信仰的候選人 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:24:46

• 雖然我不認為候選人個人信有什麽，拜登，佩婆都號稱基督徒 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:26:40

• O8夫婦在競選時也號稱是基督徒 - Mich_Agent - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:23:58

• 少拿基督教拉信譽，你根本不讀聖經，妄稱神名的神必不以為無罪 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:28:21 (1)

• 你有什麽證據說我不讀聖經？ - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:31:57

• 看對你下麵你關於聖經的引用，是典型的為我所用 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:39:15 (2)

• 我下麵對聖經的引用才是正確解釋聖經。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:46:26

• 你解經專家？敢稱自己的為正解，我的解釋沒有一句是我自己的，都是源自傳統教會的解釋 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:25:17

• 聖經講得那麽清楚明顯的段落隻要不是因為政治理由故意閉著眼睛的都了解，不需要解經專家。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:31:06

• 是誤導不熟聖經的人，故意忽略了牧師常引用的的耶利米書1:5和詩篇139:13etc - EuphoriaF - (1861 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 15:35:46

• 你引的這兩段講的是神的預知。事實上把這兩段拿來反墮胎在邏輯上恰恰是否認神的預知，是異端的解經邏輯。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:41:58

• 為個黨瞎扯抹黑扭曲基督教和經文，這是瘋了 --這些經文就是保守派牧師們的根據你說他們異端 - EuphoriaF - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:47:11

• 以弗所1:4說神在創世以前就揀選了我們，難道我們在創世以前就存在？ - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:49:44

• 別瞎扯了- 任何黨派候選人都不配拉上神給他們背書 - 繼續這麽做之前，先禱告那是否God's will! - EuphoriaF - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:53:56

• 那些牧師不管是不是保守派反正在這兩段的聖經是解釋錯了，是在傳異端而不自知。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:51:36

• 如果說神認識這人就證明這人已經存在，那是否認神的預知。任何一個牧師這樣講是在說異端。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:46:34

• 證據是你扯基督教為自己的黨背書，證明你不熟悉主禱文！ - EuphoriaF - (387 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 15:13:39

• 你探春吧，沒幾天怎麽又改ID？我可以證明你不是基督徒，你在紫檀貼文公開談論你與你現在黑人丈夫的春宮生活，比色情小說還淫穢 - Mich_Agent - (69 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 15:21:32

• 你不懂基督教。在基督教的道德觀裏夫妻之間的性是神聖的。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:28:06

• Kamala Harris是浸信會的基督徒。見鏈接： - 小倩2 - (274 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 14:31:11

• 為了混在美國混政治而已 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:56:29

• 沒有證據證明哈哈哈是基督徒，所有的都是她2020年競選時說小時候去教會，Wiki沒說他爸爸是基督徒，他爸爸2015年77 - Mich_Agent - (508 bytes) (2 reads) 08/25/2024 15:15:59

• 舊金山第三浸信會的牧師證明她是那教會的成員。見鏈接： - 小倩2 - (256 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:33:41

• 別抹黑基督教 - 隻投票給本教候選人是穆斯林做法，不是基督徒的 - EuphoriaF - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:22:26

• Meet Kamala Harris’ pastor … - 小倩2 - (256 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 14:35:06

• How often did Trump go to church? 看看quora的回答，笑死人。 - Nevermind666 - (486 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 14:37:54

https://sojo.net/articles/meet-vice-president-kamala-harris-pastor-civil-rights-leader-amos-c-brown

Brown told Sojourners that he invoked his favorite Bible verse, Micah 6:8, as he spoke with Harris, reminding her to “do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with your maker.”

“That’s what we need in this nation. There’s too much arrogance and egocentricity after all this Trumpism,” he said.

Brown said he has known Harris and her family for more than two decades, calling Harris’ mother “a terrific scholar and scientist.” Harris’s mother, Shyamala Gopalan Harris, was a Hindu from Chennai, India, who worked on breast cancer research. Harris’s father, Donald Harris, is a Black Baptist and a professor emeritus at Stanford University.

Her parents gave her experiences from the Hindu and Baptist traditions when she was growing up. In her 2019 memoir, Harris wrote that her “earliest memories of the teachings of the Bible were of a loving God, a God who asked us to ‘speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves’ and to ‘defend the rights of the poor and needy.’”

Brown said that he hoped the “groundswell” of people who protested in the summer of 2020 after George Floyd’s murder would show up in 2024.

“We can’t be cynical,” he said. “Some of these young people are cynical and misguided.”

Harris’ campaign has already been marked by widespread use of memes online — “coconut tree,” “brat,” and Harris’ love for “Venn diagrams.” Some of the memes, according to the Associated Press, are being used by Harris’s supporters in hopes of turning back “apathy” in the 2024 election and “could be a way for Harris’ campaign to resonate with younger voters.”

Brown said the vice president joined Third Baptist, where she has remained a dues-paying member, because she knew about the church’s history of working with Civil Rights leaders. Even before Brown’s time, he said the church has hosted leaders like W.E.B Du Bois and Paul Robeson.

“She came to this church because she knew our ways, she knew our history,” he said. “This church has always had a balanced spirituality: social justice and personal fulfilment and salvation.”

When asked how he’s seen Harris grow over the decades, Brown said she was a “lifelong learner.” When asked where she could grow more, he first said she should just “stay the course and hold the hope” before adding that Harris could grow in her foreign policy expertise.

Brown told Sojourners he will hear from Harris again before the week is over, on a call scheduled between the likely Democratic nominee and a group of preachers across the country.

Correction: This article was updated on July 24 to correct that Brown was a delegate to the World Conference Against Racism in 2001, not the Conference on Race and Intolerance. Brown’s bio incorrectly states the name of the conference.