Love and Marriage
(2009-07-22 20:02:58)
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When it comes to love in marriage, it doesn't matter that much whether you have faith in it or not. It's all down to whether you can FIND love in marriage.
Love in a feeling between two ppl. So as a start, it doesn't matter what one person believe or not. Secondly, even if both of you believe in it, but if you ended with the wrong person, you would simply be disappointed again and again. After a few years, your heart hurt, your passion worn away as you get older and older. Seriously, after you reached 30, there's little you believe in. Thirdly, love is a feeling, it can grow stronger or weaker. So it's diffcult to have faith in something that changes from time to time.
On the other hand, if you HAPPEN to FIND love in marriage, then some ppl say, "All right, I believe there's love after all." Other ppl maybe more cautions and say, "Ok, I have love now, but I'm not sure about tomorrow." But at the back of their heart, they don't really care. They are too busy enjoying. Come on, there's nothing in this world that you can hold onto it forever, no matter that's your health, wealther, or intelligence. So what make you think you can hold on to love forever?
All in all, love is a feeling, and ppl feel differently. So don't rely on anybody's theory or experience. Otherwise, you may end up in a terrible situation, or even worse, you may miss someone really great for you.