“聖經”明確鼓勵基督徒們不要結婚。

歌林多前書 7：8 我對著沒有嫁娶的和寡婦說，若他們常像我就好。
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.

7：27 你有妻子纏著呢，就不要求脫離。你沒有妻子纏著呢，就不要求妻子。
Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife.


看懂了嗎？很明確：單身的活著守寡的，最好保持單身（stay unmarried）。沒有老婆的，不要去找老婆。

為什麽最好不要結婚呢？“聖經”裏自然也解釋得很清楚：
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7：32 我願你們無所掛慮。沒有娶妻的，是為主的事掛慮，想怎樣叫主喜悅。
I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord\'s affairs--how he can please the Lord.
7：33 娶了妻的，是為世上的事掛慮，想怎樣叫妻子喜悅。
But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world--how he can please his wife--
7：34 婦人和處女也有分別。沒有出嫁的，是為主的事掛慮，要身體靈魂都聖潔。已經出嫁的，是為世上的事掛慮，想怎樣叫丈夫喜悅。
and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord\'s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world--how she can please her husband.
7：35 我說這話，是為你們的益處。不是要牢籠你們，乃是要叫你們行合宜的事，得以殷勤服事主，沒有分心的事。
I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.

當然了，“聖經”也說了，結婚不是犯罪。如果實在“欲火攻心”的話，還是結婚吧：
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7：9 倘若自己禁止不住，就可以嫁娶。與其欲火攻心，倒不如嫁娶為妙。
But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.


所以，當兩個基督徒結婚的時候，我們就知道了，這一對基督徒都是出於“欲火攻心”的狀態，已經不能自控了。所以隻好結婚了。