one of the saddest things about divorce (zt)

read this from "I Feel Bad About My Neck" by Nora Ephron

"My sister Delia says this, and it's true. When we were growing up, we used to love to hear the story of how our parents met and fell in love and eloped one summer when they were both camp counselors. It was so much a part of our lives, a song sung again, and no matter what happened, no matter how awful things became between the two of them, we always knew that our parents had once been madly in love.
But in a divorce, you never tell your children that you were once madly in love with their father because it would be too confusing.
And then, after a while, you can't even remember whether you were."

truely, how sad it is.

兩個曾經深愛的人，最後分開，漸行漸遠，漸漸把過去忘記，包括曾經的歡笑和喜悅。

不，我不要這樣的結局。我不要抹殺愛的記憶。曾經深愛過。我不要忘記。