你們願意自己的小孩象她一樣嗎，這件事反應了什麽？

牛人啊！看看牛津妹妹21歲生日party邀請信是怎麽寫的 (ZT)
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Dear Friends,

Thank you for all your replies and I am glad all of you can come this Friday to celebrate my 21st with me.
Please read ALL the following to ensure your entry into the Ritz.

Lucy's 21st Birthday Party at The Ritz Hotel London

Friday, 18th of August
9pm Champagne Reception
10pm Photo Shoots
10:30pm Blowing Candles

Mid-night Pangaea, Mayfair

I have arranged the Ritz to host a Champagne Reception with a selection of Ritz Champagne for all my guests, this will be on me so please come and indulge.

A specially made birthday cake has also been ordered and the Ritz waiters will kindly serve you each a generous slice with Ritz cutleries, etc...also on me.

INSTRUCTIONS FOR ENTRY:
* When you arrive, take the Hotel entry on the opposite side of the Green Park tube station [Please refer to your arrival time at the end of this email]
* When asked "how can I help you Sir/Madame?", you reply "I am here for Lucy's Birthday Party at the Rivoli Bar"
* You will be escorted to the lounge area next to the Rivoli bar, where you will hopefully see a gorgeous group of ladies.

If you experience any issues getting in or getting to the Ritz, please call my mobile on ????? ??? ??? and my PA Ms G??? will kindly deal with your queries between 8:30pm to 10pm.

STRICT DRESS CODE:
Gentlemen: Jacket, shirt, and please also bring a tie (no jeans, trainers, flip-flops, polo-shirts)
Ladies: skirt/top, cocktail dress (no denim, min-skirts, flip-flips, bad tastes)
Advice 1: It goes without saying that the more upper-class you dress, the less likely you shall be denied entry.
Advice 2: Photos will be taken between 10pm to 10:30pm, and these will be distributed once processed, therefore you may want to be well-groomed!

Finally...
I will be accepting cards and small gifts between 9pm to 11pm... hehehe

I very much look forward to seeing you all at the Ritz this Friday.

Lucy

ARRIVAL TIMES: [Please stick to these as best as you can, thank you]
9:00pm: Lucy, Sophie S., Kajai, Mandeep, Preet, Sanami, Su, Lisa, Kate.
9:15pm: Phoebe, Sophie Se., Theo, Dmitry, Ed, Nikolay, Paul, Nick, Harry.
9:30pm: Marco, Andrea, Jess, Ovi, Yuki, Olga, Kim, Marcelo, Ulyana, Krystal, Dan.
9:45pm: Sunita, Alan, JingJing, Emma.
10:00pm: Anthony, Rachel, Roger, Uli, Yogi, Gharzi

Lucy Gao
Citigroup | Real Estate Equity Research
Xth Floor, Citigroup Centre (CGC1)
25 Canada Square, London E14 5LB
Direct Line: [phone] XXXX
Fax: [phone] XXXX
Mobile: [phone] XXXX
Email: [e-mail] mailto:[e-mail]


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在花旗銀行集團駐倫敦分行實習的一名牛津大學華裔女生近日向39名好友廣發電子郵件，邀請他們到一家豪華酒店參加她的21歲生日晚會。但這封電郵定下諸多古怪規矩，嚴格要求客人應穿什麽服飾、言談舉止要怎麽樣，如何送禮等，把自己當作天後一樣。有人把這封電郵轉寄出去
這場鬧劇的女主角Lucy Gao是牛津大學貝理奧學院的學生，今年暑假到花旗銀行實習，在倫敦著名的金絲雀碼頭（倫敦金融區）上班。不久前，高魯思在公司上班的時候發出電子郵件，邀請39名好友到倫敦瑞茲酒店參加她的21歲生日晚會，隻是電子郵件的內容十分古怪。
郵件中，她詳細列出整場晚會各個環節的時間表：酒店會於21時為賓客奉上香檳，但根據她的安排，這個時候隻會有9名客人到場。其餘客人要按照她編定的時間入場，每人隻有15分鍾，遲過15分鍾便會被拒之門外；22時，主人家與客人拍照留念；22時30分，壽星女吹熄生日蛋糕上的蠟燭。來賓要注意，他們要按照事先指定的入口進入會場，要按照規定對接待他們的工作人員說些什麽。服飾也要嚴格遵守。她寫道：“你們穿得越高級，被拒之門外的機會便越低。”她還告訴來賓：“我會在21時至23時之間，接受你們送來的賀卡和小禮品。”

這個大日子過了一周後，這名女實習生仍然成為各方談論的焦點。原來，她最初發出的電郵，不知何故一傳十、十傳百，發到全世界，連花旗銀行的高層和其他國際金融機構的管理層也收到這封郵件。

高魯思目前已經躲起來拒絕見人，而她的手機留言信箱已經爆滿。8月24日，有人在網上留言版上看到一則留言，似乎是高魯思寫的。她對銀行內的同事說：“那封電郵的內容有任何冒犯之處，我感到抱歉，我是樂於招待你們的。請你們停止轉發電子郵件。”