The Most Lovely Lady

1. Honest and truthful.
2. Brave
3. Kind to people, nature and society. Not selfish. Care about others.
4. Loyal to others
5. Joyful, humorous and happy.
6. Does not love money nor care about materials too much, not greedy.
7. Neat and clean
8. Smart and deep thinking. Capable of writing poems would be better.
9. Dilligent and hard working.
10. Has high level life goals. Live to make contributions for the society and others, live to realize dreams.  
11. Modest. Respect others, especially her husband.
12. Responsible

[凡心以然]

I would have to say (even it might violate your #11,but hey, you got #2 up there) that I have everything you listed here and more (tolerating, tender,...:)
But I think your list works for man too (just change the title to "the most admirable man" and switch,on #11, 'hunband' to 'loved one' ...
BTW, now that you know what your dream is, why not go ahead chase it? The longer you wait, the farther away it is - Write a business plan and look for venture capitalist