39.OldFriends,NewFriendsIwasveryhappytomeetanoldfriendthisweekend,whomIhavenotseenformorethantenyears,anditwaspossiblethankstothesocialnetwork.Fridayevening,Inoticedthathehadarecentstatusupdate,indicatingthathewasinthearea.Therefore,Isenthimamessagewithmyphonenumberand,sureenough,wegotintouchagain!Iheardthatteenagersnowadaysusethesocialnetworktomakenewfriends;tome,thebestuseiscaseslikethis,whereit...[
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38.EchoTubeTheotherday,Iwaslisteningtotheradiowhiledriving,whenthehostandseveralguestsstarteddiscussingatopic,aboutwhichIhadformedmyopinion.Theguests,asusual,helddifferentpositionsanddebatedeachotherafterstatingtheirrespectiveones.Soonafteroneoftheguestsstartedtalkingabouthisperspectiveontheissue,whichcontractedminesharplyandsoundedabsurdtome,Ichangedthechannelevenwithoutthinkingaboutit.Themusicon...[
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37.DayofFlyingLeaves
Today,Itookashortwalkoutofofficeafterlunch.AsIwaswalkingacrosstheparkinglot,agustofwindsweptby,causingmanysmallfallenleavestoflowwithitinawavypattern.Then,onthesidewalk,withanothermildgust,abigdrymapleleavecameupfromthegroundalmosttomyshoulderlevel.Havingnoticeditinmyperipheryvision,Iturnedtoit.There,rightinfrontofmyeyes,itnearlystayedstillintheairforafractionofasecondandt...[
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36.PreferredDistance"Mydaywasperfect,untilyouruinedit!Idon'tknowyou.Pleasegoaway!"Shesaidemotionally,withtearsinhereyes.Istoodtherequietly,confusedwhythingshadturnedthisway.Itwasinadream.Iwasmovingintoawell-knownuniversity'sgraduatestudenthousing,whenIfoundoutthat,she,along-timefriendovertheInternet,cametoseesomeotherfriendatthesameplace.IdebatedwhetherIshouldgotalktoher,andfinallydecide...[
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35.It'sAllAboutPassionAfterworkinginthecurrentpositionforafewyearsandwatchingseveralcolleaguesswitchingcareerpaths,IbelieveIhavefiguredoutthekeytochoosingtherightcareerpath:It'sallaboutpassion.Whatemployersexpectforeachpositionissomeonewhoisgreatatwhatheorshedoes,andittakesalotofefforttobegreat,insteadofbeingmerelygood.Ifoneispassionateaboutone'sjob,heorshecanputinalotofeffortandstillenjoyitatthes...[
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34.RetirementandLegacyLastThursday,thefounderofourcompanyretiredandwehadabigretirementpartytocelebratehisdecoratedcareerandsaygoodbyetothisbelovedleaderandmentor.Whileheandhiswifesattherepeacefully,severalofhislong-timecolleaguesrecountedonebyonesomeofthemostimportantandchallengingeventstheyhadgonethroughtogether.Intheend,healsosaidafewwords,modestlyattributingthecontinuedgrowthofthecompanytothete...[
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33.We'retheBabiesHavingbeentryingtohaveababywithoutmuchsuccess,Irealizedrecentlythat,withoutababy,we'rethebabies.WhatImeanisthat,whilemyfriendsandcolleagueswhohaveoneormorechildrenarerapidlybecomingmoremature,thetwoofusarelaggingbehindwithanincreasinggap.Foroneexample,wearestillverypoorplanningouractivities,bothduringtheworkweeksandovertheweekends;foranother,wearealsostillprettyslackindiscipline.I...[
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32.HalftheFunIsCrackingtheNutsThispastweekend,Iwasgladtoseefreshwalnutsinthegrocerystoreagain.Somewerewholewalnutswithcompletehardshells,andotherswerewalnutkernelhalvesalreadytakenoutoftheshellsandreadytoeatoruseasacookingingredient.Ididnothesitateandboughtabagofwholewalnuts.Aftercominghomeandhavingafewwalnuts,IwashappythatImadetherightchoice--althoughthenutshellswerehard,crackingthemwiththerightt...[
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31."Youweresobusy!"ThisThursday,Iattendedatrainingclasswithsomecolleagues,wheregroupsoffourorfivetradedwitheachothertoacquire"rawmaterials"inordertoproduce"products"andmakeprofits.Withtheclocktickingandtheteamscompetingagainsteachother,IjumpedintoactionwithmyteammatesandsoongotmyselfoverwhelmedwiththenumberofthingsIwantedtodo.However,itturnedoutthatourteamdidprettypoo...[
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30."OfcourseIhave!"
"Haveyouevervotedbefore,whenyouwereinChina?"Thedayafterthisyear'selection,acaucasiancolleagueofmineaskedanotherChinesecolleague,curiously.
"OfcourseIhave!Ivotedfortheguywhobecamethepresidentofourclassincollege."RepliedmyfellowChinesecolleague.
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