勵誌不勵誌的,見仁見智的。
就是常講的:做一個明明白白痛苦的人,還是渾渾噩噩幸福的豬?
或者比較:明白自己早晚死的豬,和進了籠子才明白的豬,哪一個會更幸福?
Talking about fate or destiny, if it is "destined", you can't change it. What you do to "change it" is just to fulfill the destiny.
It is two kinds of looking at life as well:
生活是一本寫好的書,還是日記本等著去寫?三百年後都一樣,現在呢?