男主人去世後,姨太太們留或不留,自己未必做得了主。很多時候是家長、族長喝咖啡做的決定。尤其是年紀還輕,沒有一男半女,或者群眾關係沒搞好的。那時你父親應該是一家之主了……從她們被趕走,到她們對你爺爺不真心,之間的因果關係就未必成立了(事實不論)。
可能是你受身邊人的感染,從未這麽考慮過可能性。I know, I'm too logic, cold. 其實那些女人可能也挺可憐的。
你可能自己還沒送過長輩,做主怎麽埋。Sorry I got some experience lately. 什麽人有資格和你爺爺葬在一起,應該是你奶奶。堅持到底,恪盡職守的姨太太應該有一席之地。But again, that was or should have been your father's call. I guess nobody spoke any words on those ladies behalf, who were only human.