It is really tough. We should appreciate more for what our parents has done to us. They were not easy, and they have done their best, even there are so much they did not do.
I have learned a lot from my un-educated parents. A lot I have done to my kids are based on what I have learned from them. The society is changing, but some basic nature of human being never.
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Finally, a monkey off my back. Of course, another on is still on my back.:).