回複:thanks.

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回答: Should i wait? Or what shall i do?hjs20102010-02-24 00:40:54
She was a virgin when they got married. Her hu*****and had this illness for a long time and he must know how bad it may effect his marriage life.

Her grandma and uncles all support me, especially her grandma. We all know that it is not her and her hu*****and's fault if they break up. It is their marriage itself that makes it hard to work. Yes, we all feel sorry for her hu*****and because of his illness.

But on the other hand, it is unfair for both of them if she is not happy with the marriage because she can not put her heart and soul into it. Her hu*****and was not happy (according to her because he is struggling to please her). Now he does not say it any more. If the marriage is not in good shape, both partners are suffering. leaving the marriage may be the good thing for both of them. They can move on and find the suitable partners.

It all depends on what kind of life she wants. If she is happy with what she has got now, she should live with it without any pity regrets. If she wants to move on, she needs to make a decision soon.

To me, i am not going to wait for too long and i certainly will not feel regret if i choose to move on. I always belive that life will treat you nicely if you have the passion and being honest to your own life. One door closes, the other door may have opened for you:-)

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我覺得你挺瀟灑的,好像也不是特別attached,那就move on吧 -xiaozhimeng- 給 xiaozhimeng 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2010 postreply 17:41:19

回複:I just want she has got the best -hjs2010- 給 hjs2010 發送悄悄話 (582 bytes) () 02/24/2010 postreply 17:49:00

It was the impression I got from your previous post -xiaozhimeng- 給 xiaozhimeng 發送悄悄話 (243 bytes) () 02/24/2010 postreply 18:02:46

回複:right -hjs2010- 給 hjs2010 發送悄悄話 (171 bytes) () 02/24/2010 postreply 18:06:48

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