This is not something we go to the supermarket and if we did not like what we have bougth, we just throw it away or change. This is about life. If she chooses to stay, i would think her decision is the best for her.
I love her and i want she gets the best in her life. If i think there is another option for her to get the best, i would persuade myself to learn how to give up.
Right now, i need to wait incase i will hurt her a lot.
I wish i could squeaze into her mind and see her brain:-)