在我初到美國的那一年,收音機裏總放這首歌,旋律給我留下了很深的印象。但是除了個別詞句以外,我一點也不明白歌詞裏說的是什麽。偶然我的一個美國朋友說她喜歡這個歌,我就問她歌詞裏講的什麽,她居然說她也聽不大明白。嗬嗬,大概跟我聽周傑倫的感覺有點象吧。
後來過了很久我又在廣播裏聽到它,這一次多聽懂了幾句。我就去查了一下歌詞,原來講的是“同理心”的道理。歌詞裏講述了無家可歸的乞丐,未婚先孕的少女,以及街頭混混家人的命運和苦衷,並反複吟唱,如果你想理解和判斷一個人,先穿著他/她的鞋子走一英裏。
中間我最喜歡的一段說: “我見到過富人乞求;我見到過好人犯錯;我見到過硬漢哭泣;我見到過弱者勝利;我見到過悲哀的人微笑,也見到過誠實的人撒慌。我看到過邪惡中的美好,積極中的消極,和這之間的一切。”
在人的兒童時代,世界好象是黑白分明的,但成年以後就知道現實其實複雜得多。這是一首給成年人的歌。
歌詞如下: (注意,偶有swearing words,不喜勿看 :-)
We've all seen the man at the liquor store
beggin' for your change
The hair on his face is dirty,
dread-locked, and full of mange
He asks a man for what he could spare,
with shame in his eyes
"Get a job you ****ing slob,"
is all he replies
God forbid you
ever had to walk a mile in his shoes
'Cause then you really might know
what it's like to sing the blues
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Yeah then you really might know what's it like
To have the blues
Mary got pregnant from a kid named Tom
that said he was in love
He said, "Don't worry about a thing, baby doll
I'm the man you've been dreaming of."
But 3 months later he say he won't date her
or return her calls
And she swear,
"God damn, if I find that man I'm cuttin' off his balls."
And then she heads for the clinic and
she gets some static walking through the door
They call her a killer, and they call her a sinner
and they call her a whore
God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in her shoes
'Cause then you really might know
what it's like to have to choose
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Yeah then you really might know what's it like
To have to choose
I've seen a rich man beg
I've seen a good man sin
I've seen a tough man cry
I've seen a loser win
And a sad man grin
I heard an honest man lie
I've seen the good side of bad
And the downside of up
And everything between
I licked the silver spoon
Drank from the golden cup
And smoked the finest green
I stroked the fattest dimes at least a couple of times
before I broke their heart
You know where it ends, yo,
it usually depends on where you start
I knew this kid named Max
who used to get fat stacks out on the corner with drugs
He liked to hang out late
he liked to get shit-faced and keep the pace with thugs
Until late one night there was in a big old fight
and Max lost his head
He pulled out his chrome .45,
talked some shit, and wound up dead
Now his wife and his kids
are caught in the midst of all of this pain
You know it comes that way
at least that's what they say when you play the game
God forbid you ever had to wake up to hear the news
'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to lose
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Yeah then you really might know what's it like
To have to lose
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