APAD: Men never remember, women never forget

本帖於 2026-05-11 10:39:11 時間, 由普通用戶 最西邊的島上 編輯


"Men never remember, women never forget" is a common phrase often used to describe perceived differences in how men and women recall personal or emotional events.  Research suggests women often recall emotional experiences more vividly, while men tend to forget minor daily details or emotional interactions. This is not a absolute rule but a generalization often linked to biological and neuroscientific differences.

Origin:
The phrase is popularized by pioneer in gender-specific medicine Dr. Marianne J. Legato's 2005 book "Why Men Never Remember and Women Never Forget".

Another perspective, such as from Robert Jordan's Wheel of Time series, sometimes frames this as: "Men forget, but never forgive; women forgive, but never forget". 什麽

- From online source with editing
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What 7G joked the other day about the confusion in his household reminded me of what another person said to me that I don't understand men, a few days ago in another WXC forum.

My first thought then was to protest, and protest strongly: I grew up in a family with brothers; I played most boy's games and climbed up the walls/trees when young; My best girl friend since age 4 has boyish personality; The engineering schools I went through were mostly men; And the last group of co-workers I worked with for 8 years in Cisco were all men. I never felt like a fish out of water at any time. So I should know.

But, I said nothing ...

IMHO, the phrase "Men never remember, women never forget" might be true sometimes, but shouldn't be a general rule applying to all, be it men or women.

Alright, I admit that I like to laugh and cry, and talk a bit more (than the other two APAD regular hosts, even with single leg stance 嗬嗬)

Let's forgive and forget the unimportant thingy, and remember to be happy.

And, have a good Monday!

 

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(Add: Einstein's smart, but he must b joking in APAD :-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 08:34:47

Can't speak for all men but remembering's a lot of work. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 09:16:47

Ever heard "selective memory"? ;-) My brother ain't good @ -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 09:37:05

remembering 4 school exams, but good @ playing "Go" (=圍棋)~~ -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 09:40:37

Wish we can add RAM to human brains like we do 2 computers!! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 09:51:40

Both men and women remember things selectively:) or try to -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 14:00:32

remember what they want to remember&forget what they want to -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 14:01:34

Very true! 記得沈香“產婦死在我的手上”的博文嗎(we both left comments under)? -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 14:29:19

Her memory only came back triggered by 碼農的博文 。。。 -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 14:31:51

Same 4me, some past memories came back only bcoz Covid event -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 14:37:46

I remember that. We move forward by forgetting&forgiving. -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/11/2026 postreply 21:05:15

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