APAD: let it slide

Definition

   to let go of grievances and focus on the present

 

Examples

   1) After their argument, Jane decided to let it slide and focus on rebuilding

      their friendship.

   2) I always try to let small annoyances slide so that I don't get stressed out.

 

Etymology

   The term can be traced to the concept of allowing something to move smoothly,

   akin to an object sliding without obstruction.

 

Synonyms

   disregard, look past, pass over

 

- englishdaily626.com [edited]

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[I got this phrase mixed up with 'let slip' which means to reveal sth.

inadvertantly in the course of a conversation.]

 

Even for deep cuts and irreversible damages, I'd choose to withdraw myself and

as much as possible let it slide in my mind because a chip on the shoulder has a

maintenance cost and constantly drains emotional energy.

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Wow again! It's my thinking started from yesterday 2 :-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 09:20:28

Life is 2 short 4 holding grudges&nonsense, let them slide~~ -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 09:23:45

They're like tax for holding property. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 15:10:33

FYI: just picked up the book in library. Thx 7G! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (239 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 16:10:48

Enjoy. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 17:44:52

Yes, life goes on -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 10:31:16

橫批:c'est la vie ~~ -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 10:50:25

Bingo!Here comes APAD 春聯兒 4 the year of the horse :-) Cheers -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 10:54:46

and it goes smoother as one lets it slide. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 15:11:30

a chip on your shoulder-just learnt! Right attitude:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 13:46:42

It's not their fault: some are born w/ a chip on their -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 15:13:19

shoulder -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 15:13:29

That is right! I leave no room in my heart for unhappiness:) -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 14:27:20

A great accomplishment. Wish I could do that. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 15:15:17

Does letting things slide often lead to selective amnesia? -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 20:04:20

I think I am prone to that. -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (167 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 20:05:22

It will rain anyway. Mother will get married -永遠老李- 給 永遠老李 發送悄悄話 (53 bytes) () 02/09/2026 postreply 20:54:19

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