APAD: A fault confessed is half redressed


Meaning:
If one has done something wrong and admits it, he/she has gone a long way towards putting things right again. By acknowledging your mistakes or wrongdoings, you have taken the first step towards making amends and reconciling with those you have wronged.

The proverb emphasizes the importance of admitting one’s mistakes and taking responsibility for them in order to begin the process of making things right.

It originated from a saying recorded from the mid-17th century, which was attributed to the Irish statesman and philosopher Edmund Burke.

- Online source with editing
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There isn't a perfect person in this world, everyone, even Saint or "God", makes mistakes.

My upbringing taught me to admit my own fault when I see it.  Dad said it would make one stronger rather than weaker: "You want to be a good person, that's the way to go."

So yesterday when I was reading a post in 投壇, suddenly realized one mistake I made in WXC about two years ago, I apologized publicly to the person right away. 

I still don't and can't agree with his opinion, but that's ain't and shouldn't be an excuse to ignore my own mistake.

And it's a such a relief and blessing when he accepted my apology.  "A fault confessed is half redressed", and 君子應該和而不同握手握手

Good Tuesday to you, to me, and to All!

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A fault confessed is half redressed, so I'm basically -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 06:34:55

half an angel after saying sorry~~ -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 06:35:51

Haha, sure :-). Maowi's a full angel who not only says sorry -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 06:48:52

but accepts them, too. ~~~ -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 06:50:12

這是真愛 :D -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 07:09:23

Yep, he is the apple of my eye :-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 08:55:03

Need more courage to confess than to deny fault -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 11:12:10

It’s natural 4 me, I never denied fault once knowing it :-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 11:50:54

Call a spade a spade & have peace of mind is way 2 go! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 11:57:38

Confession is more of a tool. I'll see what they do. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 11:27:42

Tool?Maybe 4 churches? 2 me, Maowi is the best priest of all -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 11:52:56

4 private confessions as he is kind w/ sealed lips ;-)) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2025 postreply 12:02:06

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