APAD: Get one's bearings

To "get one's bearings" means to figure out one's position or understand one's surroundings, either literally (like finding direction in a new city) or figuratively (like becoming familiar with a new job or environment).

The idiom originates from nautical terms, referring to a sailor using a compass to find their direction, and can also mean to get one's thoughts or emotions under control before taking action.

- From Google with editing
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The coming few weeks will be a very exciting time for students, from elementary to college, for a new school year.

The first week for university freshmen is called orientation week in US, but "frosh week" in Canada. This would be the time that new students get their bearings.

I still remember the first time driving my son and his belongings to Queen's University, where he obtained his bachelor degree in Life Sciences.  After unloading his luggage up to the dormitory, he waved to me: "Bye Mom" and disappeared quickly, leaving me standing by the car speechless. And hubby needed to drive me to the nearby shore of Lake Ontario to cry my eyes out.

Actually he applied to 3 Ontario Universities, including UofT, all were engineering programs per my suggestion, and was accepted by all. But he added the Queen's Life Sciences program himself afterwards without telling me.

When he was back for the first home visit, he told me about his experience in getting his bearings, and how badly the engineering freshmen were treated in the "frosh week" at Queen's (see an old pic below 汗), to further prove that he had made the right choice.

For myself, I prefer getting my bearings slowly.  How about you? 鬼臉

 

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They (the kids) aren’t the only ones getting new bearings:) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 08:26:01

+100! Parents need to get used 2 the empty nest bearings :-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 08:47:04

but believeMe,it might be much faster than the young 1s, ~~ -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 08:48:23

I still remembered my experience when getting my gears -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 10:43:53

in university. I often got lost cause the campus was too big -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 10:47:12

Yes, been there done that 2! The 4 Uni years were a golden -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 11:09:10

time in my life. Thx 白雲 4 sharing ! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 11:10:47

that is normal for everyone -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 11:26:12

Sure, but won’t there b a difference between introverts & -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 11:39:18

extroverts? -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 11:40:34

After my little boy's first day of school, he paused -jeffnaper- 給 jeffnaper 發送悄悄話 jeffnaper 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:19:47

at the door to get his bearings before running to hug his -jeffnaper- 給 jeffnaper 發送悄悄話 jeffnaper 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:20:48

mother first. I was so jealous. -jeffnaper- 給 jeffnaper 發送悄悄話 jeffnaper 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:22:11

no need :-). Boy'll come to father more when they are bigger -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:26:02

Promise! And you can ask around to confirm it ;-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:27:46

I didn't know the word “frosh“ and took it as a typo till I -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:33:07

looked it up. You used twice, and can‘t be a typo. Thank you -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:34:17

Sorry if it tricked U 暖冬MM. It’s a word used in Canada (it’s -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:45:10

in the included pic too). Thx & Cheers! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 08/23/2025 postreply 17:46:43

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