APAD: Revenge is better served cold.

Meaning:

  Vengeance is more satisfying when exacted some time after the harm that

  instigated it.

 

Background:

   The proverb "revenge is a dish best served cold" is not especially old but

   first appeared in English in the translation of Eug e Sue's novel Memoirs of

   Matilda in 1846.

 

   It has since been used in many works of popular culture, including Kind

   Hearts and Coronets, The Godfather, and Star Trek II, The Wrath of Kahn.  The

   proverb suggests that revenge is best taken when it is carefully planned and

   executed, rather than in the heat of the moment.

 

     - Kind Hearts and Coronets, 1949: "Revenge is a dish which people of taste

       prefer to eat cold."

     - The Godfather, 1972: Don Corleone nodded. "Revenge is a dish that tastes

       best when it is cold," he said.

     - Star Trek II, The Wrath of Kahn, 1982: Kirk, old friend, do you know the

       Klingon proverb, "Revenge is a dish best served cold"?

 

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The world is such a confusing place that the promise of revenge, served hot or

cold, sounds overrated. The Godfather, for whom vendettas are business, modus

viviendi, understands that hating the enemy clouds one's judgment. Sans hatred,

however, vengence would deliver a shoddy dish, like mapo tofu without sichuan

pepper.

 

There was no lack of loathing between Christians and Jews back in the days in

Venice, but would the curse on his nation be lifted and Shylock enter an eternal

bliss had he exacted his pound of flesh? All things considered, he might be

punished more by his burning quest than for it.

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“He who laughs last, laughs best” - unknow origin :-)) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:32:11

The wait might not be worth it :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:40:53

君子報仇,十年不晚? -矽穀居士- 給 矽穀居士 發送悄悄話 矽穀居士 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:38:31

That sounds close. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:41:16

遲來的報仇更讓人滿意。 -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:49:50

The best revenge is living well. -矽穀居士- 給 矽穀居士 發送悄悄話 矽穀居士 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:40:20

totally. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:41:40

can't agree more !!!! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:01:56

Hmm, MapoTofu w/ Spepper, Yummy! But Shylock was perhaps -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:46:46

swallowed by his own greed :-)) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:48:02

Heard Adam Smith said greed is a good thing :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:50:40

Life is too short to hold grudges. Let it go. -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:21:47

Conquering self is never easy. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:27:11

Grudges hurt the immune system.不高興的事我很快就忘記了:)你是啥星座?Virgo? -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:37:51

So that's your secret: astrology! :-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:41:28

I bet you are one of Earth signs:) -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:45:17

Cheers! The betting is what life's all about. :-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:48:39

Love your relay! The vivid mapotofu metaphor made me smile:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:30:50

Me 2, good write up & very funny -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:35:09

Thank you both Different strokes for different folks--妖妖靈:-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:35:18

Mexican president ClaudiaSheinbaum wins plaudits 4 cool head -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (84 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:51:00

Hurray for Sheinbaum! -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:55:43

Remarkable woman, from environment scientist 2 politician, -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:06:20

also landslide winning election, so far unscathed -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:07:09

Sounds like a natural career path:-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:09:43

當墨國總統得通黑白兩道吧?川普稱墨西哥essentially run by cartels -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:16:53

Russia by thugs, Italy by mafiosi, etc. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:22:55

Which country by convicted felon? -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:36:00

The USA:) -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 11:05:06

哈哈哈 -永遠老李- 給 永遠老李 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 14:19:39

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