APAD: One hand washes the other

Meaning: mutual cooperation can help both parties.

 

It is similar to other proverbs, like "one good turn deserves another" and "you

scratch my back and I'll scrtach yours."

 

- www.phrases.org.uk

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I first heard this in Malcolm X, the 1992 movie which I watched dozens of times.

Malcolm, after helping growing the Nation of Islam from 500 to 30,000 members

over ten years, found out about its leader(Elijah Muhammad)'s affairs. Crushed,

he turned to Brother Baines, an old comrade from their prison days and a senior

member of the Nation, who explained:

    "Now, about our coming up in the world a little. The Nation's grown. We've

    grown with it. You know our people. They want their leaders to be

    prosperous. One hand washes the other."

 

and later

    "Do you know your Bible? David slept with Bathsheba, but he's remembered for

    slaying Goliath. Noah was accused of drunkenness, but God gave him the ark.

    Solomon had 700 wives but he was the greatest, wisest king in history."

 

and

    "The great man's deeds outweigh his personal weaknesses."

 

The scripts come mostly from "The Autobiography of Malcolm X," an enlightening

read.

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Learned it here the 1st time. Thx. 有一點兒“君子和而不同”的意思嗎? -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:15:15

People may have very different understanding of greatness. -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:16:15

4 me personally, 人品比“偉大”更重要,but it's IMHO only. ;-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:17:41

Malcolm thought so and he was kicked out and assassinated. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:22:10

He thought 人品 a necessary condition for 偉大. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:23:42

Sounds to me more like "互相吹捧" Nothing 君子 about it :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:19:47

哦,那就比較類似“小人同而不和”的意思了吧。;-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:21:36

That sounds closer :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:27:53

Especially David, 2 me is a biblical bug. muder, adultery, -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:39:35

King David commit more than 1 crimes against 10 commandments -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:41:24

David's son commit adultery to his wives is what? punish? -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:54:00

God punished David by smiting his first son with Bathsheba. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:08:07

聖經說上帝托夢所羅門國王,問他需要什麽,所羅門回答我想要有能夠使得所有猶太子民都願意服從上帝的能力 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:45:23

上帝說既然你這麽說話,把信奉上帝放在任何個人利益之前,我就給你無窮的財富與智慧,可所羅門娶了各種不同的信仰的女人 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:48:15

這些老婆也崇拜上帝之外各種神,所羅門腐敗了,上帝對所羅門的保佑到他這一代截止了。 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:50:12

It sounded like God was double-crossed by Solomon :-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:29:36

你對聖經故事很熟哈。我不信宗教,也沒去細讀別人(在我剛到加拿大時)給的聖經。在想是不是可以當“曆史” ;-) 書去讀讀? -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 11:25:54

舊約讓人讀的很沮喪,感覺猶太人或者說人類就象扶不上牆的爛泥,隻要上帝一鬆手,人類就開始拉跨 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 16:20:58

應該不隻是猶太人,人性都一樣的。所以需要被救贖。 -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/09/2024 postreply 04:57:23

Do something in return. 禮尚往來 -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:16:52

A positive spin from a positive surgeon:-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:27:19

Blogging in his eye is like “u scratch my back and I‘ll...“ -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:28:51

Did you mean "log" instead of blogging? -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:38:49

I did mean ‘writing a blog at WXC“. He is never supportive:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 11:18:52

I see. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 16:15:47

占位點讚。周五愉快。:) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:33:45

女神節快樂 :-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:39:21

:)) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 16:43:19

Quid pro quo. -akc- 給 akc 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:41:37

Yes. Neutral and more about the transaction side. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:50:51

很形象。以前中國大澡堂裏常有的事。所以現在發明了各種工具。 -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:07:24

從沒想到澡堂,還真是。哈哈! -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:50:19

People cover each other's back? -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:08:36

Part of the deal. Sure:-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:51:44

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