APAD: "Out of sight out of mind"

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The idiomatic phrase “out of sight, out of mind” is a popular idiom used to express the idea that if something (or someone) is not visible or present, it's easily forgotten about or even purposely ignored.   We do it all the time with things/people we can't deal with or stuff that we want to put off until another time.

The phrase can be traced back to the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle, who wrote that “memory is the residue of thought.” He said what we remember boils down to what we pay attention to, and if something isn't directly in front of us, then we probably won't remember it.

 

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I too had 1st hand experience of "out of sight".  

When I was young and living at home with my parents, every few weeks, Mom would call for a family cleaning day.  Dad was always the one responding and doing it (although he didn't do any other house chores).

But he just pushed and hid all the loose things away out of sight to be done with it, so he could go back to his books.  And soon enough we would have problems finding our shoes and socks in pairs, but found hats and gloves in the shoe cabinet ... ...

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It‘s similar to“Long absent,soon forgotten”. Haha, -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 08:13:50

the story of ur family is fun!:) -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 08:15:18

Actually we had a name for it: 老爸清理法。And I use it now 2 ;-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:31:52

See picture of the preface I wrote in my Dad’s autobiography -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (251 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 15:19:31

Everyone should have an autobiography. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 15:24:03

Good idea, but when (to write)? myDad wrote his at age 80;) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 17:20:54

Maybe just try to write what one remembers, anytime. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 19:43:12

哇,真棒!出版啦! -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 20:57:25

Dad knows (and practices) it. Who needs Aristotle? :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 08:50:25

I don't smoke as long as there's no cigarettes in the house. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 08:54:14

Really? My dad smoked all his life even when Mom hid them;) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:35:42

If somebody else smokes,will u smoke? -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 10:21:40

No but I won't refuse if they offer :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 10:27:06

I've a different mentality of this proverb: 眼不見心不煩,債多不愁 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (63 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:06:09

True. but I forgot the dirty sheets in our study for months -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (252 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:41:45

One thing I always try to put off and forget but can't: -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:42:27

income tax ;-( -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:43:03

拖延症晚期重度患者默默表示同意。haha -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:46:55

LOL. He is in denial stage:) -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 10:22:16

Me too. :) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 11:51:31

你當然沒有,你能量這麽大!:) -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 12:37:49

out of mind in here is not forget, but ignore 不去想它 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 10:50:47

能ignore 不去想它,也是一種修煉。:) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (15 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 11:53:38

Got it. -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 15:24:08

Out of sight out of mind, 遠離負能量的人事物。這種情況可以有。:) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:50:46

同意! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 09:53:22

What's the difference between idiom and proverb? -godog- 給 godog 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 15:21:53

Good question. 類似成語和諺語的區別? See: -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (227 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 15:36:45

That's a great answer. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2024 postreply 08:23:20

haha. nice story. when my son's room was very messy and -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 18:24:53

he refused to clean it up. I requested him to close the door -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 18:28:00

so it's out of Ur sight out of Ur mind. smart Mom. ;-) -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/22/2024 postreply 18:56:58

memory is the residue of thought.--Like it! -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2024 postreply 00:04:05

謝謝暖冬喜歡! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2024 postreply 06:42:15

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