APAD: Don't speak ill of the dead

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Background:

 

The earliest known use of this expression is in The Lives and Opinions of

Eminent Philosophers written by Digenese Laërtius around 300 AD. In this he

attributes Chilon of Sparta as saying "don't badmouth a dead man." Chilon was

one of the Seven Sages of Greece - a title given by Ancient Greek tradition to

seven 6th century BC philosophers and statesmen who were revered for their

wisdom.

 

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I wonder if Chilon cared to explain why. Is this, like other proverbs, a summary

of wisdom gained through misery and suffering? I doubt it.

 

The philosopher could be full of philanthropy and pissed off by unsavory remarks

toward some deceased person he pitied for no other reason than empathy. The fox

grieved the death of the hare, as the Chinese saying goes.

 

Besides, the dead can't defend themselves and humans despise a freeloader, one

who wins with no skin in the game.

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American Indian's tradition to show gratitude of the animal' -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:16:40

contribution by smearing the prey's blood on the hunter 's -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:21:02

forehead -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:21:16

Another proof of the fittest, not the more moral, survive. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:32:57

a bit of 逝者為大? but it's complicated wrt historical figure -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (40 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:27:42

Right. We have to know how bad some can be and learn lessons -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:34:32

Do as you would be done by -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:30:19

Well-balanced. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 09:35:25

死者為大 -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 11:35:35

Yep! -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 11:45:52

善惡在我,毀譽由人,蓋棺定論,無藉於子孫之乞言耳 -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 14:46:08

Tho half only I understand, it must be all right! :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 15:03:36

ha, maybe only for historical figure. :) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 15:11:44

想開了,愛咋地咋地 :-)) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2024 postreply 15:28:57

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