Be kind

本帖於 2024-01-09 18:15:36 時間, 由普通用戶 最西邊的島上 編輯

最近看到孫博士流浪美國街頭的故事,很為其感歎和可惜。

我們這裏是加拿大比較暖和的地方,今年冬天還沒有下過雪,草地和往年冬天一樣依舊蔥綠,房門口的紅茶花已經自己決定進入春天開始綻放。

不過因為暖和,這裏,特別是在Downtown,也有不少(homeless)流浪者,而且疫情以來數目一直在慢慢增加。本地的媒介對此有不少討論。不久前我在本地reddit網站裏也參加了一次討論。下麵是我的一個post there, titled "Be kind"

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One warm day this summer, we went cycling on our regular 25km downtown route.  We stopped half way and sat on the bench near Vancouver@Rockland for a chocolate break. An ordinary looking and quiet man was sitting on the next bench and we offered him a piece. He hesitated first, then thanked us politely and started telling us that he was there visiting his son, and his story of becoming homeless recently and how he was trying to maintain his dignity through the ordel.

We listened to him but couldn't find many right words to say, other than a nod of sympathy. This gentleman's story told us that life is very complicated and anyone, ourselves included, could run into tough times. A few kind words and even a small piece of chocolate would warm one's heart during those trying periods.

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Thanks for reading.

 

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Life is tough sometimes . This guy tried to maintain dignity -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:40:43

Sounds sad. Hope he may get back to normal life someday. -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:42:00

There are many reasons for living on the streets. -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:42:31

In addition to mental problems, many are due to drug abuse -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:43:26

U are correct. Also there is a new unfortunate trend here: -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (172 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:29:24

Sad. Is Canada's welfare better than that of the US? -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (50 bytes) () 01/09/2024 postreply 13:14:51

I don’t know policy in US, but think Canada is probably -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (52 bytes) () 01/10/2024 postreply 05:12:31

盈盈和樓主新年好-,跟個歌詞版的"芭比"-:&-祝好-;)),-問好-:))。。 -青鬆站- 給 青鬆站 發送悄悄話 青鬆站 的博客首頁 (244 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:29:00

謝謝。 -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:30:16

謝謝鬆鬆。新年快樂。謝謝分享 -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2024 postreply 13:16:47

There is an old saying"leave no one behind"-,, -青鬆站- 給 青鬆站 發送悄悄話 青鬆站 的博客首頁 (341 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:20:32

Yes, but it's getting harder and harder ... -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:32:21

I feel sorry for Dr. Sun, whose mental disorders was not -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:36:47

addressed promptly, leading to executive function problem... -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:40:20

He is a person in need, only if he had a good friend then . -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:12:06

Friends couldn't help. He needed a shrink, believe me... -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2024 postreply 09:30:40

I believe you, but he needs a friend to send him to a shrink -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/10/2024 postreply 19:33:22

Everyone is fighting a battle I know nothing about. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:44:02

very true, sigh ... -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:13:18

other than a nod of sympathy. +1,好句! -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 20:08:12

謝謝暖冬!learned by reading, and keep reading and learning ... -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:16:53

Not sure which report I should trust about Sun, but -方外居士- 給 方外居士 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 20:08:38

But his dignity should be respected. -方外居士- 給 方外居士 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 20:08:58

For sure. -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:23:33

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