APAD: Laugh and the world laughs with you; weep and you weep

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alone.

Meaning:

Look happy as people are attracted to happiness but repelled by misery.

 

Background:

 

This expression was coined by American poet Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850-1919) in

her poem "Solitude" (1883):

 

    Laugh, and the world laughs with you;

    Weep, and you weep alone.

    For the sad old earth must borrow it's mirth,

    But has trouble enough of its own.

    Sing, and the hills will answer;

    Sigh, it is lost on the air.

    The echoes bound to a joyful sound,

    But shrink from voicing care.

    

    Rejoice, and men will seek you;

    Grieve, and they turn and go.

    They want full measure of all your pleasure,

    But they do not need your woe.

    Be glad, and your friends are many;

    Be sad, and you lose them all.

    There are none to decline your nectared wine,

    But alone you must drink life's gall.

    

    Feast, and your halls are crowded;

    Fast, and the world goes by.

    Succeed and give, and it helps you live,

    But no man can help you die.

    There is room in the halls of pleasure

    For a long and lordly train,

    But one by one we must all file on

    Through the narrow aisles of pain.

 

 

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True but a bit sad. Anyway, Happy Monday! :) -CBA7- 給 CBA7 發送悄悄話 CBA7 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:25:01

Thanks but truth should never sadden us. Happy Monday! -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:30:06

Nice poem, and I'll taste it in depth later. -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:37:10

I've not wept since I was 12. Maybe not healthy... -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:39:00

weeping is known to be cathartic -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:14:33

Same here. I love it. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:13:58

weep and the world laughs at you -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:52:36

sometimes deservedly. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:17:32

樓上三位是好男兒有淚不輕彈呀。佩服一下!不過這樣豈不是少了一個疏解壓力的辦法?:) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (602 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:51:56

有淚不輕彈 is tied to male survival need. Nothing to be proud of. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:55:19

理解。不容易。對於我來說,隻有解決了心情,才能解決事情。 -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (248 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 11:45:48

你若讓我“大哭一場”,不如給我根繩兒算了。Truth, nothing to be proud of... -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:18:50

眼淚幫助排毒。為了健康,哭吧。吼吼。:)) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 05:56:47

haha, Laugh and the world may laugh at you -衛寧- 給 衛寧 發送悄悄話 衛寧 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 11:53:45

世人笑我忒瘋顛,我笑世人看不穿 :)) -衛寧- 給 衛寧 發送悄悄話 衛寧 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 11:54:08

Both get a laugh. A win-win :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:07:03

噗~~ -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:11:32

是的,個人的十字架需要自己扛。 -Oona- 給 Oona 發送悄悄話 Oona 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 13:55:24

還有一句是,要與喜樂的人同樂;要與哀哭的人同哭。問好Oona。:)) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:13:59

還有一句:先天下之憂而憂,後天下之樂而樂:)) -衛寧- 給 衛寧 發送悄悄話 衛寧 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:52:49

有情懷!:)) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 05:37:43

Good point. We shall laugh and sing more. -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:28:02

Sometimes, the world laughs at you. -waterfowl- 給 waterfowl 發送悄悄話 waterfowl 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 16:24:18

那咱就心理強大地朝the world 回翻個白眼唄。禮尚往來。:)) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 05:38:53

Love it! 才來讀,可是發現金句多多! -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 18:14:10

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