APAD: You can't go home again

Meaning: If you try to return to a place from your past it won't be the same as

it was.

 

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It sounds like another version of "one does not step in the same river twice."

 

My friend Bill used to be a sucker for many useless sentimental songs rehashing

similar ideas, e.g., "you can no longer go back to the past." He couldn't get

enough of the tear-jerking lyrics delivered in simple yet bitter-sweet melodies.

Invariably, they seemed to tell him that he was the victim, the abandoned, the

rejected, and the disinherited and he was entitled to indulge in self-pity. For

a naive, senstitive youth with some inferiority complex, that music was as

powerful as bolts of lightning and as addictive as a drug.

 

In comparision, the epitaph of the pagan philosopher Epictetus should cheer everyone up:

 

    Here lies Epictetus,

    a slave maimed in body,

    the ultimate in poverty,

    and favored by the gods.

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回不去的從前!Great writing! I‘ve to go home again this new year:)) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 11:05:54

I want to go back to China to visit my parents too. :) -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 12:40:37

You both are lucky. Enjoy! -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 13:25:55

Thank you. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 14:40:08

Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (335 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 12:29:36

I used to get 'Philippians' and 'Philippines' mixed up :-) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 13:25:10

The epitaph of the pagan philosopher Epictetus is impressive -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 12:51:08

I always thought so :-) It's worth repeating. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 14:39:16

This is why I'm not a fan of visiting China frequently, -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 13:24:53

...given that many things there seem dazzling. -唐宋韻- 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 13:26:48

Nor do I but for another reason. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (72 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 13:46:43

Nothing stays the same -waterfowl- 給 waterfowl 發送悄悄話 waterfowl 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 14:18:32

as a song claims: Only you can say what you gonna do. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 15:12:49

”one does not step in the same river twice“ more popular:)) -衛寧- 給 衛寧 發送悄悄話 衛寧 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 17:35:52

and "you can't go home again" sounds briefer &more idiomatic -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 20:58:13

物是人非? -godog- 給 godog 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2023 postreply 22:01:38

物非人也非 :-))) -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2023 postreply 09:19:02

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