wrong.
After exhausting the 50 proverbs that I googled for APAD, I turn to Leo Rosten's
Treasury of Jewish Quotations. Picked up years ago, maybe from a library book
sale, it had sat in the garage gathering dust until recently. As for the whys, ask
me no questions and I'll tell you no lies.
I can't remember but think Chinese must have counterparts for the quote above.