Hang out with positive people
If you want to be successful in your life, at work,and socializing, you need to be aware that there are two groups of people to hang out with. First, there are those who lift you up, are positive about life, have energy and enthusiasm, walk their walk, talk their talk and generally make you feel great to be alive. And then there are the moaners, who bring you down to their level of inactivity. The second group are not the group to hang out with if you want to make things happen and be happy.
So hang out with positive, smart people who feel life is an exciting challenge worth wrestling to the ground and having fun with; who have positive things to say or suggest rather than moanning; who tell you that you look fantastic rather than criticize you.