這個有點離題哈：“Language is not the ony tool for communication", yes, language is far not the only tool for commuication.
”Professor Mehrabian combined the statistical results of the two studies and came up with the now famous—and famously misused—rule that communication is only 7 percent verbal and 93 percent non-verbal. The non-verbal component was made up of body language (55 percent) and tone of voice (38 percent).“
我雖然bu'shi 特別同意上麵的比例，但是對於non-verbal部分在溝通中起到的作用，感同身受。
