more idealistic than cynic, a word used by Bill Clinton for his

. Cynicism is a cowardly cop-out. And no one ever really gets even in life." The speech did not win over Porter Montgomery, 23, who came to see his ...

For Clinton, a Proud, Sad Day - Los Angeles Times

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Jun 7, 1997 — The president's sentimental appearance at graduation ceremonies for the private Sidwell Friends School here marked the end of Chelsea's high school career. ... In his remarks, the president gave a glimpse at the impact Chelsea's parting will ... by hatred, the desire to get even, self-pity, despair or cynicism.

“As you look around this class today, we have to make out of our rich diversity the world’s first truly great multiracial, multiethnic, multireligious democracy. No one has ever done it before, and I hope our country can do as well as you have done with each other.”

For all that, however, Clinton mainly sounded a lot like a dad attempting to dispense hard-earned lessons in the speech before 122 graduating seniors and their families.

“First be brave. Dream big and chase your dreams. You will have your failures, but you will grow from every honest effort. . . . Even if you don’t get what you think you want, amazing things will happen.

“Second, be optimistic and be grateful. Some bad things are going to happen to you--to some of you, unfair things, perhaps even tragic things. . . . When these things happen, try to remember that each new day is still a gift, full of the mystery and magic of life. Try not to waste even one of those days trapped by hatred, the desire to get even, self-pity, despair or cynicism.”

“Third, be of service to others. . . . Fourth, be humble and proud.”