Is this call domestic violence

My parents got green card, and live with us. They fight very often, my dad can find any excuse to fight with my mom. Sometimes he say somethings that's beyond anything you can imagine....... Sometimes he went to kitchen and take the knife, threaten. He also pushed my mom to sofa, cover her head wit blanket. And he is trying to control our life, make everyone in the family live with high pressure. He wanted to interfere with our daily life, try to make everything difficult for us to do. We have do daughters ( younger than 10), I really don't want the kids to hear this. But I also don't want to send my parents back to China, since I am reall afriad he will harm my mom. What should I do? I told my mom, if he ever do this again, she should ru of of the house and scream for help. I think people will call 911. Yeh, I maybe able to call 911 myself, but they are my parents, it's hard to imagine that I did this. So if someone called 911, will police take him away and send him back to China? That will be ideal for us. What will the police do to my daughters? Will they be sent to foster home? Since this is really not our problem, it's my dad's problem, but he lives with us. Thanks for any advice

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I think if you call police, he will be sent to China -xxhhwxc- 給 xxhhwxc 發送悄悄話 (57 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 06:07:01

回複:I think if you call police, he will be sent to China -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (456 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 07:36:59

俺覺得,你爸有綠卡,應該不會因家庭暴力被遞解出境。 -如塵- 給 如塵 發送悄悄話 (109 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 07:59:33

But using knife to threaten others is a serious matter -xxhhwxc- 給 xxhhwxc 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 09:55:57

回複:Is this call domestic violence -pppppppp- 給 pppppppp 發送悄悄話 (100 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 08:02:44

回複:回複:Is this call domestic violence -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (796 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 09:36:08

當家事變成這樣的話,你就隻有靠法律了,還好美國是個法製的國家. -知福惜福- 給 知福惜福 發送悄悄話 知福惜福 的博客首頁 (53 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 09:54:10

讓我們分析一下如果打了911,會發生什麽。首先警察會趕到 -xiaobaitu- 給 xiaobaitu 發送悄悄話 xiaobaitu 的博客首頁 (602 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 10:08:28

回複:讓我們分析一下如果打了911,會發生什麽。首先警察會趕到 -experience- 給 experience 發送悄悄話 (313 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 10:26:56

回複:回複:讓我們分析一下如果打了911,會發生什麽。首先警察會趕 -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (78 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:07:37

再看了一遍你的帖子,覺得你爸爸精神是不是不太正常啊? -xxhhwxc- 給 xxhhwxc 發送悄悄話 (74 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 10:09:42

回複:再看了一遍你的帖子,覺得你爸爸精神是不是不太正常啊? -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (517 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:11:02

曉以大義 -千年老妖- 給 千年老妖 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:56:17

"xiao(3) yi(3) da(4) yi(4)" may make things worse in the future -笨企鵝- 給 笨企鵝 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 17:46:28

你爸著實的可惡。你不如就去法院申請個禁止令讓他自己住得了。 -如塵- 給 如塵 發送悄悄話 (66 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 11:21:47

回複:Is this call domestic violence -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (128 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 12:23:43

The problem is yours, not your daddy's! -wjsw- 給 wjsw 發送悄悄話 (1089 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 13:29:32

回複:The problem is yours, not your daddy's! -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (1134 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 16:31:05

你爸是“知己知彼,百戰不殆”,知道你和你媽好欺負。 -如塵- 給 如塵 發送悄悄話 (63 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 16:42:42

Completely agree with you! -wjsw- 給 wjsw 發送悄悄話 (146 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 18:36:56

找個心理醫生幫助他,美國有很多治精神方麵的藥物。 -Don'tGo- 給 Don'tGo 發送悄悄話 (50 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 10:07:31

很多白人女孩子動不動就吃治療心理的藥 -don'tgo- 給 don'tgo 發送悄悄話 (228 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 10:18:51

He may be in personality disorder -freecall- 給 freecall 發送悄悄話 (626 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 14:45:22

回複:He may be in personality disorder -yayo- 給 yayo 發送悄悄話 (450 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 15:47:41

Yes, all you said about him here -freecall- 給 freecall 發送悄悄話 (414 bytes) () 11/21/2006 postreply 08:14:49

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