The problem is yours, not your daddy's!

You should know what kind of person he is well before you brought him to the USA? Why would you bring such a jerk (sorry for the bad word) to screw up your own life? I think that's one of the most stupid things you ever did. Secondly, you know that you can't make him behave better by pleasing him in every way you can. Why don't you think about something new?

Having your neighbours call 911 to take him away is certainly not the best way to deal with this issue. You will realize how many additional headaches you'll get once he is taken away by police on domestic violence charges. It would be much better if you can have a serious direct talk with him and warn him all the consequences if he does those dumb things again. If necessary, call 911 yourself (that way you can explain to the police that your purpose is to scare him, not for them to arrest him. If your neighbours call 911, the matter could get rather serious). When you or your hu*****and can be easily intimidated, you'll never win this battle. I hope your hu*****and can tolerate it indefinitely.

Good luck!

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• 回複：The problem is yours, not your daddy's! -yayo- ♀ (1134 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 16:31:05

• 你爸是“知己知彼，百戰不殆”，知道你和你媽好欺負。 -如塵- ♀ (63 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 16:42:42

• Completely agree with you! -wjsw- ♀ (146 bytes) () 11/19/2006 postreply 18:36:56