please help with a hard situation at work

I  work for a discussting Chinese boss. He is  very rude and unfair to me for a few months, made me feel very unhappy. Then he'll be super nice to me, ask me lunch out.  This  situation lasted for 2 years, I told him many many times I won't go out lunch with him alone.

He told me that he likes me, but he won't do anything if I don't agree.

I tried to get a new job without success. I called sex harassment hotline, was told that that's sex harassment and I can go to HR, but I may lose job because of that.

He just asked me for lunch again, I am very upset and unhappy about the situation.

Please help me if you know what I can do about it.

Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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• Asking you out for work lunch is not considered harassment -vest2005- ♀ (307 bytes) () 10/12/2013 postreply 08:13:08

• 首先,Human Rights -maxfan- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/16/2013 postreply 08:07:58

• 首先,Human Rights可以幫到你, 請進吧. -maxfan- ♀ (1357 bytes) () 10/16/2013 postreply 08:36:26