請教加州離婚應訴方30天內答複的問題

這裏是官方網站的說法：

http://www.courts.ca.gov/1232.htm

If you decide to file a response, you have 30 days from the date you were served with the Summons and Petition to respond.

如下是Nolo book "How to Do Your Own Divorce in California"的說法

http://www.nolo.com/products/how-to-do-your-own-divorce-in-california-cdiv-1.html

page 16, 1.5

A Response SHOULD be filed within 30 days of receiving the Summons and Petition, but CAN be filed anytime before Petitioner declares the Respondent's default.

這裏的should和can是什麽意思？是不是說，應訴方應該在30天內答複，但即使超過了30天，隻要在起訴方遞交default表格之前答複，也不算default？這裏的deadline實際考慮是30天和起訴方遞交default表格，兩個時間裏更晚的那個時間？

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