回複：一些問題請教，極度鬱悶

老貓覺得很丟臉,老貓在下麵另外一個朋友的回帖中還提到國內的男同學的一些在麵對離婚時的行為...是很"獨立"的...現在就來了您這個帖子,老貓心中隻有一句話,"乾脆老貓自己拿磚砸自己就得了,不用其他人動手了...."

Anyway,您的問題回應如下,



(A)您的夫人出軌的部份可以做為您提出離婚的理由.

(B)財務的部份,基本上對於任何婚姻內的動產與不動產是採取Equitable distribution of marital assets,所以對方當然有權可以要求,但是基本上要看對方實際的contribution to the marriage by each spouse,所以對方讀書的費用,您當然可以base on (e) The contribution of one spouse to the personal career or educational opportunity of the other spouse , 您雖然說明您的妻子是靠父母來提供學費,但是您的妻子要如何來證明? 同時就算不考慮學費,在對方求學期間,您負擔家庭生計,所以這個部份仍然適用您的情況.

當然您們所買的房屋也是婚姻共同財產的一部份,然而您應該考慮這個問題,房地產的分割，佛州的法律如下

h) The desirability of retaining the marital home as a residence for any dependent child of the marriage, or any other party, when it would be equitable to do so, it is in the best interest of the child or that party, and it is financially feasible for the parties to maintain the residence until the child is emancipated or until exclusive possession is otherwise terminated by a court of competent jurisdiction. In making this determination, the court shall first determine if it would be in the best interest of the dependent child to remain in the marital home; and, if not, whether other equities would be served by giving any other party exclusive use and possession of the marital home.

所以如果您現在考慮您能夠勝任做為一個單親父親的全部責任,同時可以說服法官,您可以保障您的工作與照顧你們的孩子不出問題,您就有機會可以保住這個房子,否則依您目前的情況,這可能是一個問題.當然對您有利的是您的妻子出軌的行為,基本上不是對孩子的個人利益最為有利,所以如何處理,您應該有一個腹案.

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