當我真正開始愛自己


1889年的今天,一代喜劇之王查理·卓別林誕生。別認為他隻是頭戴圓頂禮帽、持手杖、登大皮靴、走路像鴨子的“流浪漢夏爾洛”,其實,他也是一位充滿人生智慧的詩人。


 
As I Began to Love Myself (inspiring video)


As I begin to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is AUTHENTICITY.
 

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it RESPECT.
 

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it MATURITY.
 

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE.
 

As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it SIMPLICITY.
 

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.
 

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is MODESTY.
 

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT.
 

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection WISDOM OF THE HEART.
 

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know THAT IS LIFE.
 

-Charlie Chaplin

 


中文朗誦版: 當我真正開始愛自己









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嗯。我喜歡這個人。 -大江川- 給 大江川 發送悄悄話 大江川 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 17:19:57

+1 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 17:26:07

人生近看是場悲劇,遠看是場喜劇.--卓別林(Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, b -閩姑- 給 閩姑 發送悄悄話 閩姑 的博客首頁 (89 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:02:49

太深奧了,俺隻知道“亂烘烘你方唱罷我登場,反認他鄉是故鄉。 甚荒唐,到頭來都是為他人做嫁衣裳” -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:10:00

這個也太悲了.全是那空空道人的情傷論. -閩姑- 給 閩姑 發送悄悄話 閩姑 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:19:03

是啊,讀著讀著,就抑鬱了。還是老外陽光開朗樂觀 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:21:32

當義工,無償為社會服務,天天替他人做嫁衣的人海多了,何悲之有? -gtcharlie- 給 gtcharlie 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 04/17/2015 postreply 10:14:30

難得大江喜歡,嗬嗬~~.回國一趟你喝了什麽好酒? -閩姑- 給 閩姑 發送悄悄話 閩姑 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 17:46:29

謝謝閩妹所轉資訊。當然是茅台與5糧液,不多喝,3,5瓶蓋。目下,整點白葡萄酒,我特喜歡那種橡木桶味。 -大江川- 給 大江川 發送悄悄話 大江川 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 19:14:31

第一次在美國買酒時,就不小心買了一瓶濃烈橡木桶味的葡萄酒,還老貴.實在太難聞了,受不了. -閩姑- 給 閩姑 發送悄悄話 閩姑 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 19:31:11

啥酒? -TBz- 給 TBz 發送悄悄話 TBz 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 20:28:57

物真價實,tingfeng style -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:08:28

聽說好象有啊,在你回國的時候 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:17:01

;) -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (6 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:38:03

據說不止一個 -TBz- 給 TBz 發送悄悄話 TBz 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 20:33:29

Wow! So much truth in this! -明月關- 給 明月關 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 04/17/2015 postreply 11:23:40

奇怪哈,responsibility上哪兒去了? -隨意001- 給 隨意001 發送悄悄話 隨意001 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/17/2015 postreply 16:05:20

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