"從來沒有表揚我...

琢磨不透這個老板到底是什麽意思。"

He knows you crave to be praised verbally. By withholding it, he is in control.

Did your parents praise you much when you were growing up? It's likely a childhood reflex you carried around desiring validation from others.

Validate yourself. That involves taking responsibility for yourself. Not easy.

 

(The money should be validation enough. More praise leads to less money.)

 

 

 

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• 得，遇事賴父母的風終於吹到了職壇。人家不過是 -Lancet- ♀ (198 bytes) () 06/25/2025 postreply 04:09:38