"就是心有不甘,總是得不到認可的失落"

來源: One1618 2020-11-14 08:28:22 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀: 次 (662 bytes)

 

By seeking approval from others, you are placing a burden on them.  People feel that when dealing with you.  That burden weighs on their unconsciousness, which makes them less confident about you.

Place that burden on your own shoulders.  Focus on the work.  Do not distract yourself by shifting the burden off of your shoulders by offering yourself explanations.  Accept that there are things that are beyound your control, and don't let them drain your energy.

Before others have confidence in you, you have to have that confidence in yourself first.

 

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Agree with the confidence issue. -醉裏吳音- 給 醉裏吳音 發送悄悄話 醉裏吳音 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2020 postreply 15:36:52

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