My approach - will tell him directly and firmly that I appreciat

I will write clearly in my email too this way, if he does not support the parts I need, I am not the one to be held accountable. 

Years ago, the same company, one person yelled at me for not accepting his help which was not needed and wrong. And anothe woman one year ago offered to help, she made a 30 minutes automation into 3 month long eventually failed projects - she insisted to use a method will never work. 

Not sure why people act like this, but I will say NO this time. 

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• 不知為什麽說NO怎麽如此困難。禮貌再輕鬆地帶著微笑類似歉意似的說出真實的理由，難嗎？自己在那裏糾結任情緒壓抑，別人會覺得很奇怪。 -世上事本無- ♂ (328 bytes) () 06/19/2019 postreply 19:34:13

• I am Bao Zi, and too nice to say NO. But I am learning. Thanks -placidworld- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/20/2019 postreply 13:25:31

• 人從西部給派來，不是來help你的，是來lead的，你還是得弄明白他給派來的目的 -Anjiff- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/22/2019 postreply 08:03:21