You see what you want to see,在被裁的一刻，你是非常vulnerable 的，你把

所有的羞辱仇恨都投射到了她的臉部表情

You see what you want to see

you hear what you want to hear 

you feel what you want to feel

自從明白了這個paragraph, 我心中的畏懼減少了很多

Good luck