Lol

I think it takes a whole lifetime to get better at ourselves that includes parenting. You are already an open minded parent coz you still feel like you should be learning.  If your son feels the same way as you do, I would strongly suggest you to give him your opinions  on how to handle it now. But, if he does not feel bothered as u do now, let it go:) all I m saying is it's better to give ideas and suggestions on how to handle situations, than tell someone how they supposed to feel:)  telling anybody how to feel is always a bad idea.

everything is is goona be fine:)