哈哈,that's all U need to say to him:

"I'd love to help U, but I'm so sorry that I'm so busy w/ such & such ..", We just need to say no in a nice way...

that is, unless you may need him to return you a favor down the road.

normally I love helping people in my work place as long as he/she is not abusive...
Helping people does not hurt us anything...


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有的人你越幫忙,他越給你事兒。 -Pink俠- 給 Pink俠 發送悄悄話 Pink俠 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:25:20

That's abusive, that's why you say no with a smile -qtwen- 給 qtwen 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:26:38

一開始他讓我幫忙時我就是這麽說的。 -Pink俠- 給 Pink俠 發送悄悄話 Pink俠 的博客首頁 (105 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:28:32

it's America, U do not have to do anything U R not comfortable -qtwen- 給 qtwen 發送悄悄話 (167 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:32:03

我好人做了很多年,終於要 SAY NO 了。 -Pink俠- 給 Pink俠 發送悄悄話 Pink俠 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:45:30

其實很多時候從別人提出要求的語氣就可以知道是不是自己份內的工作。 -Pink俠- 給 Pink俠 發送悄悄話 Pink俠 的博客首頁 (77 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:48:50

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