what should I do?

Someone in another group asked for help from me today and I did and when she asked me to do more that could takes more time, I suggested that "I think I need to ask my manager about my schedule today first, since i am in middle of getting results that he has been waiting for".  then she said with madness "are you out of your mind?  Is he your parent?  I am gonna report it to our director!".   I was completely shocked!  It turned out (other colleagues were there and talked with me later) that there might be some tension between her group and my group at the managing level, since I just started at my current position for a few months, I don't know anything about that.

I took the 1st and the 3rd sentence nothing, since they were not handled professionally.  I just have not felt ok for the 2nd sentence, which is very insulting for me personally.  My parents are living with me and in their 70's and this colleague is a Chinese too.

What should I do?

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• 沒必要太較勁。以後就說有東西急著出看回頭給他怎樣。 -Julie116- ♀ (38 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 20:06:48

• 多謝！我啥也沒說，同事一揚長而去 -jennylin- ♀ (170 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 20:35:25

• 回複：多謝！我啥也沒說，同事一揚長而去 -朱珠兒- ♀ (243 bytes) () 10/10/2013 postreply 06:22:25

• "工作中有來有往" (help one another"?)才會建立自己的"群眾組織" (good personnel netw -jennylin- ♀ (47 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 20:39:50

• 公事公辦，跟你老板匯報。 -sigma- ♂ (37 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 20:16:44

• thank you! My boss already said "you did nothing wrong" -jennylin- ♀ (141 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 20:37:14

• 下次她再過來，先冷淡她，讓她等等，你忙完在跟她說 -Manymore- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 21:02:23

• 她有問題，不是你的錯 -:-}- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 21:10:33

• Thank you Ms Smiley! -jennylin- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/09/2013 postreply 21:12:57

• 關門，放狗 -胡說之- ♂ (223 bytes) () 10/10/2013 postreply 07:47:55

• Thank you all! :) professional field is really a place where we -jennylin- ♀ (577 bytes) () 10/10/2013 postreply 09:29:49