回複：工作選擇?

Go with your wife, because

1) she is your LD

2) she makes sense in the following:

you still have 25+ years of career to struggle before you reach 65(or 67) if our social security still works; too early for your career confort zone.

life style -- the city life can offer your kids a variety of life styles and develop social skills,

A's salary is higher, penny counts:)

no moving hassle.