Only sometimes you get to do your homework - at some point for some reason you can't just say no I'm not gonna do this test I want another set of tests.
Men are so logical: if you make the choice, you bear the results. I guess women wish their choices could be treated more gently, with more feelings. "Yes," they would say,"we chose to do this for the family, if you ever acknowledge that, but can't you say ‘that is so sweet let me see whether you need any help', instead of ‘You made your own choice so why bother ME with those annoying stuff doomed to accompany the choice?' "