Understand what your points is, smart! You seems a boss. I was only wanted to have publication, and he seemed and still seems to show off the power (very likely!) Not necessary, we are adult, not elementary pupil anymore. Honest to say, I did respect him very much and was very careful not to offend him anyway. One thing I can't agree more is your point: I did offend him someway sometime somewhere so that he did not like me.
Should you dislike a person because he did the thing right? I understand being jealous of somebody is quite common. But if you do not like the person, why do you keep asking help from him? I felt strange and frastrated, as I am still a postdoc hanging around for job.
