If you want to be extraordinary, you need to be extraordinarily strong, and willing to take extraordinary risks. More importantly, don’t listen to what ordinary people talk about your decisions and life.
Most Chinese women just want their ideal hu*****ands to be a male servant and a money maker, don’t pay too much attention to their hu*****ands’ needs, friends and families. I have seen so many these types of families failed when their children grew up.
A failed family will fail eventually, regardless whether a hu*****and stays with his family or not.
Your family will remain strong, not because you both love each other, simply because you give him what he wants, and understand what he is willing to do.
Take the risk, or regret the rest of your life when you both get old enough.