having three small kids and have time typing in chinese. we have four kids (17, 9, 5, 3) and both work. we have no time writing these stuff.
I think your personality is dominantly red, meaning you are more likely to be emotional. there is nothing wrong with this personality. however, you need to take advantage of the good attribute of this personality (a doer and do things fast) and constrain the shortcomings (tend to be emotional).