I think your problem is integration

you did not participate into the "group" activity, i.e. chat about kids etc. How can you expect them to treat you as a member of the group? have you ever watched "friends"? Rachel even started smoking to integrate into her group because she realized her boss and the other woman in the office shared this common habit and often discussed work and made decision while they smoked together. That is how much effort one has to make to be part of a team.

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• Cathey說的有理。不過記得前陣子那個“入圈”的帖子。你得表現出價值，她們才會接受你套磁。 -驢驢- ♀ (75 bytes) () 09/10/2010 postreply 06:47:38

• yes. that is right. -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (288 bytes) () 09/10/2010 postreply 11:25:28

• wrong place. -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/10/2010 postreply 11:28:10