one more thing.. after you FANG FENG, remember to say some reve

things, like what the indian said.. here is what he said.. when he brought up the topic of green card, he turned the topic to his own situation and said, well.. these things are out of my control, so i just forget about it.. and this can give people impression that you want to stay and be loyal.. i'm guessing he negotiated something for himself and then he started talking this way..